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You are not the first to ask. And you will not be turned away for asking.
Everyone has one.
The phone rings. The doctor says the word. The bed is suddenly half empty.
And somewhere in the dark comes the oldest question in the world: why? If God is real, and if God is good - why this?
If that is the question that brought you here, I want you to know something before anything else: God is not too fragile for your tears. His own Book is full of people who cried out to Him in pain. You will not be scolded here. You are among friends.
Some people think faith means never asking why. The Bible does not talk that way.
Job asked. David asked - listen to him pray:
"How long wilt thou forget me, O LORD? for ever? how long wilt thou hide thy face from me?"
Psalms 13:1 (KJV)
That prayer is IN the Bible. God kept it there on purpose, so hurting people would know that honest words are welcome.
And there is more. On the cross, the Lord Jesus Himself cried:
"My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?"
Matthew 27:46 (KJV)
The Son of God has personally prayed the why prayer. Whatever you say to God tonight through tears, He has heard before - from His own Son. You do not have to run from Him. You can draw near.
The Bible gives an honest answer, and it only takes a few lines.
This is not the world as God made it in the beginning. When God finished creating, He called it very good. No funerals. No hospitals. No locked doors.
Then sin entered.
"Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned."
Romans 5:12 (KJV)
Sin came in, and sorrow and death came in with it. That is why the world aches. Your grief is real because something really is broken.
Notice what this means: your suffering is not God being cruel to you. It is the groaning of a world that walked away from Him - a world He has already set out to rescue.
Here is where God's answer begins. Not as a lecture. As a Person, standing at a grave.
Jesus' friend Lazarus had died. When Jesus saw the sisters weeping, the Bible gives us the shortest verse it contains:
"Jesus wept."
John 11:35 (KJV)
Stop and look at that a moment.
Jesus knew He was about to raise Lazarus from the dead - He did it minutes later. He knew the story would end in joy. And He still stood at that grave and wept with the people He loved.
That is who God is. He does not watch suffering from a distance. He stands in it, and His tears are real.
Tears alone do not fix a broken world. So He went further - further than anyone has ever gone.
Seven hundred years before the cross, Isaiah wrote of Him:
"He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief... Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows... But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed."
Isaiah 53:3-5 (KJV)
Read those words slowly. Our griefs. Our sorrows. Our transgressions.
On the cross, Jesus carried both the sorrow of this broken world and the sin that broke it - died for our sins, was buried, and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:3-4). The resurrection is God's proof that suffering and death do not get the final say.
God's answer to suffering is not a sentence. It is a Saviour.
Maybe you believe all that, and tonight still hurts. So where is He right now, at your kitchen table, in your hospital hallway?
Closer than you think:
"The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit."
Psalms 34:18 (KJV)
Nigh is an old word for near. Not near the strong. Near the broken-hearted. Your worst night is the very place He promises to stand.
"He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds."
Psalms 147:3 (KJV)
And He invites you to hand Him the weight:
"Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you."
1 Peter 5:7 (KJV)
Casting means throwing - the way you would throw a heavy pack off your shoulders. He is not annoyed by your cares. He asks for them. Because He cares for you.
Jesus never promised His people a painless life. The night before the cross, He told His friends the plain truth:
"These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world."
John 16:33 (KJV)
No false advertising: in the world ye shall have tribulation. But hear where the sentence lands: I have overcome the world. The One who stands with you in the trouble has already beaten it. Peace, He says, is found in me - not in the storm stopping, but in Whose hand you hold while it blows.
Carefully now, because this verse has been quoted carelessly at too many hurting people:
"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."
Romans 8:28 (KJV)
This verse does not say your loss is good. It does not ask you to call evil good. God never does that.
It says something different: God is able to work good, even out of what evil meant for harm. How do we know He can? Because He already did - at the cross. The worst thing ever done on this earth, the murder of the Son of God, became the doorway of salvation for the whole world. If God can bring that good out of that evil, He can be trusted with what you are carrying - even when you cannot yet see how.
The Bible does not end with a broken world. It ends with this:
"And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away."
Revelation 21:4 (KJV)
Look at the picture: God Himself, wiping tears from His children's faces the way a father does. No more death. No more sorrow. The former things are passed away.
Suffering has a last day on God's calendar. It does not get the last word. He does.
Small, honest steps. Not homework - a hand to hold.
So why does God allow suffering? God has not explained every part of it to us. But here is what He has done: He told the truth about the broken world, He entered it, He wept in it, He carried its sorrows and its sins to the cross, He rose again, He stays near the broken-hearted, and He has fixed the day when every tear is wiped away.
The question He leaves with you is not "do you understand everything?" It is gentler than that: will you trust the One who carried your sorrows and rose again to save you?
"For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved."
Romans 10:13 (KJV)
Whosoever means anyone. Grieving, angry, numb, exhausted - anyone.
There are no magic words. But if your heart is ready, you could tell Him:
"God, it hurts, and I do not understand. But I believe Jesus died for my sins, carried my sorrows, and rose again. I am trusting Him to save me - tonight, just as I am. Amen."
The best next step is simple: open the manual and meet the Author for yourself.
Children of God Ministries
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